sharing and marriage

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Sharing and marriage,two concepts that will stand on the podium this week in our talk,concerning relationships.We are going to examine the concept of sharing and see how it comes in the act of marriage and how to enjoy the best of both worlds in a relationship.
Sharing is the act of dividing into parts something or object,either equally or otherwise,the formular to be used depends largely on the sharer and at the end of the day, those that partook of the sharing end up happy or discontended,while you the sharer goes home happy also or annoyed with yourself.
In marriage you and your partner virtually share everything in common, but most still find it difficult to share.The way and manner to share depends largely on the factors on ground,i mean the factors laid down by you and your partner,that will suite your home.Let’s take a home where both partners earn fat incomes i mean the 6 digit type ,you will find that money is not the problem of such homes but little little household chores like washing the dishes,bathing the kids and the type of activity to engage in. I have heard and seen families bickering and nagging over attending a social function together all because one partner refuses to put on the dress the other wanted,what about the one that spilled over after a nightout and the dishes stayed a whole week with know one to wash them, both parties saying they are far too busy in the office to run their late,even to kiss the kids bye in the morning was a herculean task.
Simple domestic chores have been known to seperate homes,because both parties find it difficult to share what they have and refuses to meet at a point of agreement,where the other party will be looked upon as a helpmate rather than a househelp.This problem becomes more complex when only one partner brings money home,the other is looked upon as a lazy person,who sits around all day doing nothing while ‘i sweat my butts out to feed you’,that is where the Ego takes centre stage and needs to be quickly removed other wise that marriage is done for.
Learn to share with your mates,help in simple things like dusting the chairs ,bathing the kids etc,it will go a long way in making your home to be firmly established for there is nothing like a home well settled with smiling faces all around.,it helps to keep your marital fire Burning.
To your family’s joy.

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