WILL YOU SHARE YOUR INCOME WITH YOUR PARTNER ?

WILL YOU SHARE YOUR INCOME WITH YOUR PARTNER ?

The other day,my wife was lamenting about the high cost of items in the market and how the family income was been greatly affected by the sudden increase of food items,but she made a hughely remarkable comment that we will be shareing today’thank God for our joint account ‘.This got me thinking we ae not feeling the effect of this increae much due to the fact that we are able to pull our resources together and dont sweat about it much.
But sincerely it was and is not easy to achieve such a feat in this hard times with the kind of economy that we are living in it’s pretty much difficult.We did largely to the fact that we had already planned this type of programme out prior to this time and we simply fell back on the plan that we had already developed.

These days many intending couples dont sit down to plan what the future hold for there marriage they take it as it comes and often grumble and complain when situations bercome too hard,they hardly have any backend plans for tomorow.
Many find it difficult now to lay the card on the table to help sustain the family.Many families today are keeping seperate accounts ,and hardly want to bring out money talkless of admiting they have it within there reach.The Holy script tells us what the man and woman must do as aunit,Genesis 2 ;24,says ‘both shall be one’,the Holy book did not say man have yours and woman have yours,but both shall become ONE, indivisiable unit unbroken and unshaken.

Why do many find it difficult to maintain a single family account ?

Looking at the many reasons posited by mainly the female gender they feel that the male will not want them to know how much they earn talkless of seeing the salary at the end of the month,Trust is a word they find to hard to think and TRUST, for they feel the man can withdraw from the account at any time he feels like and lavish it on competiton outside which is quite true if properly investigated.Many women will rather collect money from the man and use it to her own taste than allow the man to dictate for her,they prefer to spend the money they earn on the kids and for ther own upkeep rather than allow the man have the upper hand in monitary affairs of the home.Running the home is the woman’s domain but the man contributes his quota in the form of keeping money at home for contingencies.
Meanwhile the men also says that they will find it difficult to keep money along with the wife,since they will not feel like the man of the house since the woman will want a detailed account of spendings within a period of time,they feel caged not expressing themself the way they want to.

That is the true essence of having a joint account with your partner ,spendings that are not worth thinking about are cut off while the econmics of prefrence comes to the front in your decision making,you are both able to harness what the basic family needs are and work towards getting it.So will you share your monthly income in a joint account with your partner ?.
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The company called marriage (part 2)

THE COMPANY CALLED MARRIAGE
Joining the company called marriage needs only your application letter to the man/woman with the golden sunshine that melts your anger and inflames your passion etc.Marriage is a company that once your application is accepted and given a position or office to hold,you must carry the duties of that office without fear,but to focus on what the future holds.

Many marriages came about as a result of one of the partners exacting too much influence ,pressure that the other caved in.The company called marriage is a life long company that needs the constant attention of both partners to make it work,and how will it work ?.Both parties must be ready and willing to work together ,sacrifices must be made ,and of paramount importance both parties must be ready to share everything in common following the injunctions of the Bible concerning marriage,you will see the sacrifices involved and the commitment occasioned by it.
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THE COMPANY CALLED MARRIAGE.

Family virtues and I love them a lot, but you must work hard at maintaining your family virtue otherwise you will be lost. Today I want us to look at the issue called marriage and a teasing question follows. WHY AM I MARRYING?
Good question ,have you ever sat down to consider why you are getting into this enterprise called marriage? in the first place. Are you getting into this life long company because your peers are doing it or you just want to be seen as belonging to the group of those that had done it .Whatever your reason for getting into the company called marriage, it has to be sound otherwise you are bound to end up a disaster.
The other day wifey was recounting the past and rolling off what she dreamt of as a teenager concerning her status as a married woman, and this question came up. Like every woman I know they start such things slow and then pick up steam as they warm up, until they are in there elements and you cant stop them from chattering continuously, and have you noticed that women only talk about things that will favor them and if the story is not to there taste they will hardly talk.
Why am I marrying ? conduct a poll and the answer will amaze ,but for whatever reason you are getting into the company called marriage have this at the back of your mind that it is a company that needs to be built from the ground floor up and it takes serious commitment and hard work before it can stand the text of time. Work hard at it and you will see your marital life blooming like the morning sun. God bless you.

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‘You are my life ,my soul and dreams,for you i will do anything’,we often hear such from love birds,who in the comfort of there nest say sweet nothings to each other.Give it a little time and they are settled as man and wife,the next part of the scene will be’i hate you,you ……you…….so and so …….

This happens in 75% of marriages ,while a great minority find the antedote to make there marital life what they dream it to be yet a vast majority cant seem to find the right tonic for the problems they are having with there marital life.This has lead to the increase in divorces and heartbreaks in unfulfilled promises.But with the right kind of attitude this can be overcome.

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