Monday, September 22, 2008

WHO IS THE WEAKER SEX( facts you need to know)

From the begining of man kind, the woman has always stood out as the bigest headache to man’s problem ,yet man calls her the weaker sex.Why i rather want to ask ?.But look around who truly is the weaker sex ?
A young boy grows up with the in-born feeling that he will grow up to take control of affairs in and outside his immediate environment and this feeling sticks with him for live,but as he grows he begins to discover certain other areas of life that the books dont talk about or how to riun them and that is woman,the bane of every man,good or bad.
A girl grows up with the feeling that the man is at her beck and call just snap your fingers and the man will come running.Did i hear an argument going on somewhere,hold on a while before you release your bomb on me.
Come with me and let us share some very funny but exciting facts about who the weaker sex is.
A man will leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife, someone he fell head over heels with and then begin a new life with kids of there own coming in later in life.During the drama of life called marriage a lot of things goes on , that will prove to many that the man is at the beck and call of the woman who is regarded as the weaker sex.Ha what a laugh.The title of helpmate does not apply to the woman but rather the man who is the mate here as the woman directs the affairs of the marriage.
The woman will chose the type of wedding dress she wants , not caring if the funds is available or not,the type of dress she wears on the day which she claims to be her happiest (i wonder if it truly is ).A man is expected to open the car door for the woman to get in and out ,while he stands all in the name of love,ha.
Imagine going to a restaurant and the man is waiting for the woman who arrives late as usual and my brother man will stand up from his seat to pull up the chair for the woman to sit and then place order for what they will eat /drink ,the man is just expected as always to pay the bill after,and it will be out of place if the woman dares as much as bring out her checkbook to pay.
God help you if you hit a woman during a fight and of course you are not allowed to hit,beat or lashout at the woman who is the weaker sex,you will or may loose all your life’s work if your wife takes you to court and that will be the end of your life except God help’s you.I wonder who protects the man from the woman.
Now who is the weaker sex ? From ages man has found it very difficult to say NO to the woman,from the garden of Eden to this day woman has always and will always dorminate man,the way woman cries,wriggles,maon etc will forever make man a slave to woman,yet they claim to be the weaker sex,ha what a laugh.
Man lost his manhood to woman on the day he collected the apple from woman in the Garden of Eden to eat and man has never been the same since.
Man the weaker sex that is under the influence of woman that is called LOVE,blinded by what he does not see but what he wants as a controllingf factor in his life and the woman sits atop this estate with glee smiling all the time and making mockery of man who continues to be misguided by the tag of weaker sex..

Monday, September 8, 2008

sharing and marriage

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Sharing and marriage,two concepts that will stand on the podium this week in our talk,concerning relationships.We are going to examine the concept of sharing and see how it comes in the act of marriage and how to enjoy the best of both worlds in a relationship.
Sharing is the act of dividing into parts something or object,either equally or otherwise,the formular to be used depends largely on the sharer and at the end of the day, those that partook of the sharing end up happy or discontended,while you the sharer goes home happy also or annoyed with yourself.
In marriage you and your partner virtually share everything in common, but most still find it difficult to share.The way and manner to share depends largely on the factors on ground,i mean the factors laid down by you and your partner,that will suite your home.Let’s take a home where both partners earn fat incomes i mean the 6 digit type ,you will find that money is not the problem of such homes but little little household chores like washing the dishes,bathing the kids and the type of activity to engage in. I have heard and seen families bickering and nagging over attending a social function together all because one partner refuses to put on the dress the other wanted,what about the one that spilled over after a nightout and the dishes stayed a whole week with know one to wash them, both parties saying they are far too busy in the office to run their late,even to kiss the kids bye in the morning was a herculean task.
Simple domestic chores have been known to seperate homes,because both parties find it difficult to share what they have and refuses to meet at a point of agreement,where the other party will be looked upon as a helpmate rather than a househelp.This problem becomes more complex when only one partner brings money home,the other is looked upon as a lazy person,who sits around all day doing nothing while ‘i sweat my butts out to feed you’,that is where the Ego takes centre stage and needs to be quickly removed other wise that marriage is done for.
Learn to share with your mates,help in simple things like dusting the chairs ,bathing the kids etc,it will go a long way in making your home to be firmly established for there is nothing like a home well settled with smiling faces all around.,it helps to keep your marital fire Burning.
To your family’s joy.

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