Thursday, February 5, 2009

Are the odds against you high

Marriage to many single ladies is the beginning of living life to the full, when the man has not yet come you find ladies in such situations with gloomy and forlorn looks, looks that will make you ask question as to their reasons for not finding the man, especially if they are of the marriageable age.
Tongues will start to wag, and people will without knowing begin to ask questions bordering on kids and family, from the home front the parents will put up a kind of pressure that is not easily felt but which will grow by the day to something that can stretch to breaking point if not handled with care. Even friends and colleagues who are already in the marital circle will begin to show concern that she will miss the “mark”, others may begin to posit that she has a deep seated problem, that is the cause for the delay in her getting married.
Soon the fear of loneliness, of fading beauty, and the likely delay to unanswered prayer will make this lady walk down the high way called worry and anxiety, a route that if not well handled will lead to the end of life.
Yes the odds are high for the single lady, who is getting knocked by the emotional effects of delay in marriage. Age is never on the side of the woman, as she gets more matured the possibility of a young fresh man knocking on the door continues to get remote, and she knows this, with the prompting of people around her, she begins to fret and despair, thinking that she will soon fade out of the picture. This will automatically make her go into the mode of self pity, as she watches other less endowed ladies living happily with there man.
But wait a minute, worry and anxiety will bring about know miracles in your life but Patience, prayer, faith, and trust in God will bring about the miracles into your life
To you single ladies out there I say never give up hope, your man is knocking on the door right now even as you read this. Amen. see more stress and worry related articles on www.triond.com/fredbridg

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